What makes a relation stable and long lasting ??
4 supporting pillar that give holding strength
Respect, toleration, trust, faith
Respect
everybody demands respect from people around them especially from the person they love. Respect can exist as a boundary which limit another person to do something that would erupt the anger of the first party. Respect don’t just exist in relationship but in friendship as well. Simplify it, it’s a supporting pillar that prevents a relationship or friendship from crumbling.
Toleration
A happy life/relation/friendship requires toleration. A must in life, but sometimes toleration had its limit. This might not be a problem to a person being tolerated but it is to a person that tolerates. Everybody had their limits.
Trust
put trust in your friends / lovers. This would help not only settled down arguments but also misunderstand. The core of a relationship let it be friendship or love. What if, you lose the core? Imagine yourself
Faith
having faith in someone. Means believing that person wouldn’t fail you whenever you depended on him/her. But can humans really be completely faithful? They just can’t. Doubt lies deep inside every humans heart.
Relationship is like a balance scale.
It reach its optimum balance of respect and stability when both party gives the same amount of respect. However, it is not balanced when giving less or more.
Assuming that, one party gave 100% respect to the other party but the other party just gave out 50%.What would it be?
Ever heard of thermometer? The glass pole that is extremely sensitive to heat. Try imagine this, dip the thermometer inside a boiling water, then dip it out and put it into a luke-warm water. Repeat the process for a few times and see whether the thermometer mercury bar raised or dropped in the end of the day. I’m sure that it will rise. Same as relationship, every time there’s an argument, eventhou problems can be solved. There are still nasty emotions pilling up. When it raised to it’s limit, what happen? The thermometer break lar of cos.
Something that you used to it, doesn’t mean it’s okay.
In love, you are not the only one owning your partner. You own each other.
So do, and please do,
Care about your partner’s feeling
Try stand in their shoes and feel what they feel
You can’t 100% own a person. If this is what you expecting from a relation,
might as well you should consider getting a pet dog.
Readers, treat you partner the same important as you treat yourself.
As your partner maybe treating you as someone more important than himself/herself
posted @ 4:44 AM
Saturday, February 7, 2009
Looks familiar right ?
A first hand rolled-up condom.When I wrote first hand = means its fresh from the pack and neva used to cover up any bananas before.
Nowadays,condoms are available in so many types and colours.
Personally,the most extravaganza condom I ever saw is the one with the spiral shape.Looks like a drill to me.And it makes me wonder what's d feel of the one being penetrated by it?Ewww, like this ?
Oh man,high or pain ?I guess the feeling of getting electrocuted would be the best to explain how it feels.Don't ask me stupid question like "I tried it before" or something similar to this.I don't think I've chance to try this for the rest of my life unless I being forced to go from the anus." Tung Kui".Oh man..talking bout this remind me of those "ahgua" standing infront Ritz Hotel every night.I can accept anal sex if performed by one man and one woman,but definitely not those performed by half man half woman creature with another man.Damn gross la wei,imagined when you tengah cucuk cucuk..then suddenly one bean sprout came out from the asshole.EWWW!
Anyway,there are even cases like stealing condom ?Oh my god,its cheap...to the extend that everyone can afford that.But why is this still happening huh ? The adventurous feeling of stealing something so odd and getting caught will make you got your name appear on News Paper ?or that country history records?see to believe..
Guys,if you can't afford to get a condom...you can always use a plastic bag.Wrap it around ur dick and tie it with a rubberband.It would have the same effect as condom expect it don't have the sperm killing chemical.And yeah,this will not gonna be comfortable but atleast its better than getting caught of stealing condom.
Breathe you out Breathe you in You keep coming back to tell me you’re the one who could have been and my eyes see it all so clear It was long ago and far away but it never disappears I try to put it in the past Hold on to myself and don’t look back
I don’t wanna dream about All the things that never were Maybe I can live without When I’m out from under I don’t wanna feel the pain What good would it do me now I’ll get it all figured out When I’m out from under
So let me go Just let me fly away Let me feel the space between us growing deeper And much darker every day Watch me now and I’ll be someone new My heart will be unbroken It will open up for everyone but you Even when I cross the line It's like a lie I’ve told a thousand times
I don’t wanna dream about All the things that never were Maybe I can live without When I’m out from under I don’t wanna feel the pain What good would it do me now I’ll get it all figured out When I’m out from under
And part of me still believes When you ay you’re gonna stick around And part of me still believes We can find a way to work it out But I know that we tried everything we could try So let's just say goodbye Forever
I don’t wanna dream about All the things that never were Maybe I can live without When I’m out from under I don’t wanna feel the pain What good would it do me now I’ll get it all figured out When I’m out from under
I don’t wanna dream about All the things that never were Maybe I can live without When I’m out from under I don’t wanna feel the pain What good would it do me now I’ll get it all figured out When I’m out from under When I'm out from under
It's CNY and i guess nobody would like being a geek sitting infront their pc.CNY its all about receiving angpaos,eat and play.From day 1 till half of day 4 of CNY...all that i ever do is just do some tradisional chinese new year activity with my relatives.GAMBLING!
Day 4,went fetch my dear and went Ipoh Garden East for dinner.I had my dinner at my aunty's hse but my dear haven't.So went to Yeodle English.
After that,went clubbing with the rest of my kakis at Rum.Suprisingly, i get to know that my dear is a good DRINKER.More like an alcohol rubbish bin that can swallop in whatever alchocol she's given.After all the drinks,she still walking steadily.Even my bros praised her for that.I left early and heading to Joyi's hse to gamble.And then drive her to her aunty's house to get her cloths.Headed to Ipoh Garden East again for supper.Ordered ikan bakar. After that,sent her back to her relative house.
2mr morning,5th day of CNY.Slept for 2 hours and kicked my dear out from her dream.Waited for her nearly 1 hour infront her relative's house.Went oldtown for breakfast with dear and mummy.Then headed to my grandma's house to gamble.
At night,went to choong siang's open house,went Ipoh Parade for late night movie.I don't know what's that movie trying to show actually.Yawned like mad in the cinema.Bumped into my cousin brother with his gf outside d cinema,pretend not knowing each other.hehehe
Went to TongSuiKai,known as RainbowCity...now only I know.I used to call there TSK or titiwangsa cause a disco name titiwangsa located at there before.And...ordered my claypot mee and white coffee ice.My dear had ice kacang only.But ended up my claypot mee got scammed.
Sent her back to her relative house...and something extra happened,can't tell what is it,but it's exciting xD.
posted @ 5:51 PM
Oh man,high or pain ?I guess the feeling of getting electrocuted would be the best to explain how it feels.Don't ask me stupid question like "I tried it before" or something similar to this.I don't think I've chance to try this for the rest of my life unless I being forced to go from the anus." Tung Kui".Oh man..talking bout this remind me of those "ahgua" standing infront Ritz Hotel every night.I can accept anal sex if performed by one man and one woman,but definitely not those performed by half man half woman creature with another man.Damn gross la wei,imagined when you tengah cucuk cucuk..then suddenly one bean sprout came out from the asshole.EWWW!