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What makes a relation stable and long lasting ??
4 supporting pillar that give holding strength

Respect, toleration, trust, faith

Respect

everybody demands respect from people around them especially from the person they love. Respect can exist as a boundary which limit another person to do something that would erupt the anger of the first party. Respect don’t just exist in relationship but in friendship as well. Simplify it, it’s a supporting pillar that prevents a relationship or friendship from crumbling.

Toleration

A happy life/relation/friendship requires toleration. A must in life, but sometimes toleration had its limit. This might not be a problem to a person being tolerated but it is to a person that tolerates. Everybody had their limits.

Trust

put trust in your friends / lovers. This would help not only settled down arguments but also misunderstand. The core of a relationship let it be friendship or love. What if, you lose the core? Imagine yourself

Faith

having faith in someone. Means believing that person wouldn’t fail you whenever you depended on him/her. But can humans really be completely faithful? They just can’t. Doubt lies deep inside every humans heart.

Relationship is like a balance scale.

It reach its optimum balance of respect and stability when both party gives the same amount of respect. However, it is not balanced when giving less or more.
Assuming that, one party gave 100% respect to the other party but the other party just gave out 50%.What would it be?

Ever heard of thermometer? The glass pole that is extremely sensitive to heat. Try imagine this, dip the thermometer inside a boiling water, then dip it out and put it into a luke-warm water. Repeat the process for a few times and see whether the thermometer mercury bar raised or dropped in the end of the day. I’m sure that it will rise. Same as relationship, every time there’s an argument, eventhou problems can be solved. There are still nasty emotions pilling up. When it raised to it’s limit, what happen? The thermometer break lar of cos.

Something that you used to it, doesn’t mean it’s okay.

In love, you are not the only one owning your partner. You own each other.
So do, and please do,
Care about your partner’s feeling
Try stand in their shoes and feel what they feel
You can’t 100% own a person. If this is what you expecting from a relation,
might as well you should consider getting a pet dog.

Readers, treat you partner the same important as you treat yourself.
As your partner maybe treating you as someone more important than himself/herself

posted @ 4:44 AM